Tornado Alley

I live in an isosceles triangle that sees much tornado activity.  We knew the past weekend would be difficult, and so it was.  Seeing a wall of grey haze tinged with green is always unsettling, but that wall passed just south of us the first night of the bad storms.  Monday we were never worried based on the maps, but sadly many people were affected to the southwest of us in Oklahoma City.

I’ve lived through a tornado before in Iowa City.  The only good the experience brought is the knowledge of all the nuts and bolts of what a tornado means, step by step across a night.  Tornadoes are scary, but they follow a semi-pattern of air, rain, hail, and noise within a small distance.  Fortunately, I didn’t see any of the signs these past days.

I had an wealth of emails the past couple of days—from clients, from family, from blog readers—and I thank you for the care you show MP and me.  We are sad for the people of Oklahoma City and Moore and Shawnee.

What does one do in the face of a tornado threat?  First, feed all the animals around you, including strays.  Two, pack your good belongings.  (I’ve done this for almost a month at a time in high season.)  Third, watch for a sudden and drastic change in climate.  Fourth, watch for green.  And silence (especially silence after hail).  And then the roar.

I’ve known victims of tornadoes long before moving to Tornado Alley, and it takes years to recover.  Let’s send them our heart-felt wishes.

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Essentials: Hydration & Resolutions

A Trio of superb beauty products for summer

It seems I must offer apologies again for falling off the map.  Crazy busy, utterly exhausted, pulling my hair out in not-attractive fashion—these would define me the past three weeks.  But—at least my skin hasn’t been killing me with dryness!

I’ve had a few emails, so let me explain what’s going on chez nous a bit more.  MP had his ankle replaced.  As in, they took part of it out, then put a new mechanism in.  While knee and hip replacements are fairly common these days, ankle are still new, and they are far more complicated.  The operation went fine, and his doctor was very happy at the last check-up, but here’s the thing . . . for a month or more, MP’s ankle cannot move.  Not a lick.  To make sure this happens, the operation includes the building of a “retention device” (i.e., cage) around his ankle and legs comprised of spokes shooting into his foot and calf.  In other words, physical therapy is still a ways off; right now he’s largely flat on his back, though he uses crutches like a Jedi-master.

The most challenging part of all this, for me, is incorporating into my life all the things that MP took care of.  Cooking?  MP did it.  Washing dishes?  MP did it.  Grocery shopping?  Most of the time, MP did it.  Driving anywhere?  MP did it.  Taking trash to the burn pit?  Picking up mail?  Picking up anything?  Likely as not, MP did it.  Now I have to do it, and that’s without my work pausing even a little bit.  Though thankfully he’s starting to cook again . . . . whew.

Before I sound like a lazy Cat, I’ll defend my prior way of life with one word: work.  Between the full-time job of editing and the hours upon hours of printing and photography . . . the truth is that left to my own devices, I’d just eat granola & yogurt and sausages straight out of the package.  That way, I don’t have to stop working and the clean up is minimal.  But here’s the important thing: My chief New Year’s resolution was to work less.  I’m not a fan of the American way of life of work, work, work and kill yourself in the process.  It’s too much stress.  So, I decided that I was going to work much less.  Cue belly laughter.  My second resolution—a spending freeze—was connected to this.  If I was working less, then of course I couldn’t spend money I didn’t have.

Neither resolution has been fulfilled.  I’ve worked incessantly—and spent like crazy.

But how about personal New Year’s resolution number three—pay more attention to my toilette?  Things happen to the skin and to hair when you’re stressed out all the time.  And even more things happen to your skin and hair when your climate is almost consistently 0% humidity.  Thankfully Beryl has discussed this on her blog; this really isn’t my imagination.  I live where skin cells and hair follicles die.  Only here’s the thing . . . in addition to not cooking, cleaning, driving, grocery shopping, and everything else, I haven’t been paying attention to my skin.  The thought of even washing my face at night was way too much to bear, and I left my hair to rot for almost a year.

So—in some ways, I’ve been using the hanging of the exhibition and then MP’s operation as a wake-up call—a chance to reset the clock and attend to those New Year’s Resolutions after all.  I still work, work, work, but I’ve been spending leisure time elsewhere than in blog land.  For instance, I’ve been washing my face!  Or, I’ve been rubbing botanical oils into my skin!  And that’s where this series of posts on hydration and la toilette come in, because I want to share with you some fabulous finds.

First: La Mer lip baume.  Since before Christmas, my lips have been a mess.  Dry, dry, dry doesn’t begin to describe what they were like.  I’d exfoliate with a washcloth a couple times a day, yet still they cracked and flaked.  After purchasing half a dozen different products, from inexpensive to expensive, I finally asked a sales associate in Nordstrom at the Mall of America (thank god for road trips!) to recommend the best product she knew of.  She immediately led me to La Mer.  My heart did a little spasm (we all know that La Mer is expensive), but I bought it.  Why not have a little faith?  Two doses later—the texture of my lips was perfect.  In the past month, I’ve had to exfoliate my lips once (after not using the baume for a few days).  Hands down worth more money than I paid for it.

Second: Kiehl’s Ultimate Strength Hand Salve.  I try lots of hand creams.  They all fail.  I use tubs of shea butter from Whole Foods, expensive creams from Santa Maria Novella, crap from any o’ where—they quickly show themselves a waste of money.  Part of the problem is photo chemicals.  The other part is the dastardly climate and water here.  This Kiehl’s cream works (others in the line do not).  I even use it on my ugly little toes that develop icky cuticles.  In one application, my hands and feet are—and feel—moisturized again (with no awful cuticles in sight).  First wonder of the beauty world IMHO.

Third: Shiseido sunscreen.  I use sunscreen only from Shiseido after experience taught me that all sunscreens are not equal and that this company WILL keep me from getting burned—all without messing with my skin.  This spring I’ve been using the new Urban Environment UV Protection Cream 40 SPF.  It’s great, just like I expected, though a touch drying like most of their thicker sunscreens are.  Of course, any extra “urban” protection might be lost on me, so I think I will go back to the more liquidy face/body 55SPF bottle.  Since I haven’t been using concealer or foundation, I don’t know how it interacts with face make-up—but it works well with face powder as long as you let it dry for a few minutes.

Last . . . The three resolutions above weren’t the only New Year’s resolutions made and then promptly ignored.  Oh no.  The most awful resolution was resolution number four: wake up early.  I am not a morning person.  I hate mornings.  I put off trying to become one with the dawn.  Resolution number five was just as awful—start going to the gym again.  For the past three weeks (except for one morning a week!), I’ve been getting up early and heading to the gym before I start work.  This is the biggest reason for not blogging; it takes up two hours a day (it’s a long commute) and leaves me irritable and blah.  But I’m doing it, my muscles are popping out, and my body feels tons better.

Next time, I’ll talk about hair . . . a salon in Iowa City (again, thank god for road trips!) restored mine.

Posted in Essentials, La Toilette

Merry May

Place Igor Stravinsky, 14 January 2011. Vandyke brownprint.

The blog break was unplanned, yet enjoyed.  The trips were fabulous.  The chance to see friends, meet old friends of MP’s, and to make new friends was re-energizing.  The drives, on the other hand . . . exhausting!  I forgot how huge the Midwest is.  Drives anywhere take long, long, long hours.  But those drives allowed me to connect up with collectors . . . and by the end of my trip, the photo boxes in the truck were much diminished.  When added to the works sold by the gallery, this month has been extraordinary.  I already must reprint works to fill commissions.  This and everything else is keeping me busy.

April was an amazing month, and it allows me to plan beyond the summer and the fall.  I’m thinking Berlin . . .

Summer will be quiet as I plan the next photo trips and print and reprint photographs.  MP has just had a surgery to replace his ankle, and so we’re staying close to home and readying ourselves for a great year.

Aesthetic Alterations-wise, I’ve be focusing a lot on hydration during the past few weeks.  For hair, for skin, for body.  It’s been great, and I want to share my finds!

How is May looking for you?

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Rapt: Butterflies

 

It’s been a long time since AA focused on sartorial pretties.  It’s about time.   Spring is hands-down the most fabulous season for reinvention of self, whether by throwing yourself into new creative activities or through a re-visioning of how you adorn your body.  As soon as I smell a warm breeze, I leap into the closet for a flowing dress, then scrabble through chicken-coop drawers for a piece of sparkly crystal.

Spring in rural lands means butterflies—lots and lots of butterflies.  I don’t know if you know this, but butterflies feast on animal droppings, so when I go on walks through the forest in the springtime, I find hoards of butterflies feasting on deer and whatever leavings.  They rise up in a swarm as I walk by, and it’s quite the fabulous thing.

So when I saw these butterfly and cactus pieces by Lalique (plus pendant by Baccarat), my heart just exploded.  In celebration of work accomplished, I brought them home and have reveled in their beauty for days now.

What longing does spring generate in you?

 

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Changes on the Horizon

MP & AA on a walk to the pastures

The past few days have been both blessedly quiet and utterly exhausting.  Time to get over the fabulous things in life is one of those odd necessary things, so for the past few days I’ve been quietly absorbing during the evening hours the events of the preceding days and weeks.  The first night of the show was a success that promises to keep blossoming.  Even more fabulously, it provided a venue for meeting other artists in the area, including a restorer of crystal (as in, chandeliers) with whom I’m eagerly hoping to hang out in the near future.  The most fabulous part of the weekend, however, was the presence of both my mother and MP’s parents in our home.  It was the first time either of us had introduced our parent/s to those of our partner, so that was a special occasion.  And then it became a big party when Beryl and her John, as well as S and E, came over Saturday for a big feast.  We had to put two tables end to end to fit everyone!  As Beryl would say: Good times!

It was joyous.

And now the word has been given that MP and I can start sharing news about the next direction life will take us.  To put it directly, MP is a recipient of one of the most prestigious individual grants within the United States: a Guggenh— Fellowship.  I’ll let you flesh out that name (and let’s not write it out fully in comments!) so as not to create Google hits on AA—discretion and all that.  Yes, MP has won the attention of simply fabulous people because he’s—to put it frankly—brilliant.  The G.F. has funded research in Swaziland in 2013/14, so he’ll be diving into his adventure soon!  Next year, I’ll go for a while to South and East Africa so we can pursue a separate project together.  How divine!  Who could have known back in the 1990s that my extensive coursework in South and East African arts and Post-Colonial Theory might actually be used??  Clapping!  Really—it goes to show that you never know where life will take you.  And then there’s MP—he’s been talking of this project for a long time, but most people have poo-pooed his ideas because he isn’t a “specialist” in the area.  He followed this goal no matter what—like most projects of his, really.  And now . . . it begins.  Clapping wildly for MP!

And that’s not all.  All you fabulous women and fellow bloggers living in London and southern England . . . . MP and I are visiting London and Rye in mid-September.  MP is speaking at an important Henry James conference due to the magnificent book on William and Henry James he’s written, recently published in the States.  I’m tagging along for photography and the hope to see some super-cool people!  Our visit will be short, but I hope it will be full of beautiful meet-ups.  Again—as Beryl says: Good times!

There’s more news on the horizon, but I think that’s enough for today.  Today’s news is a big celebration of MP!

Hip-hip-hurrah!!!!

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